on courtship or dating

Yes, Lord, walking in the way of your laws, we wait for you; your name and renown are the desire of our hearts. (Isaiah 26:8)

Is courtship a viable means for people to find their mate?
> It's interesting, life that is. It throws you so many surprises, so many challenges; it tests your trust, your faith, and hope not only in yourself but in others. And although you want to just reach out and take control of your life you know you must WAIT on God for His direction and timing. We see this practically in waiting and believing that God will provide for you a spouse. What are the mysteries and secrets of finding that special one that you will love forever? You might ask yourself, "What is the difference between courtship and dating?" God is deeply involved in your lives: "You will show me the path of life; in your presence is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore" (Psalm 16:11). As we wait in His presence and let God guide our steps, He will bless us beyond comprehension.
> How is the courtship system different from the dating system? As a couple begins a courting relationship, they both have a clear purpose: to consider marriage. A couple only enters a courtship relationship after they ... believe it is the right choice. This period of time before entering a courtship relationship is where we must put our trust in God, for this period can involve waiting. ... The intent of courtship has a long-term view. Courtship challenges a person to trust and wait patiently on God, and to live a responsible and unselfish life.
> The principles of dating are man-centered and determined by the culture, whereas courtship principles are God-centered. ... One might ask, if dating is so wonderful then why does it cause so much pain? With dating, a couple generally looks for satisfaction through a short-term relationship, gratifying only a physical or emotional need. Dating can be called off easily, sometimes with no hurt, and other times with great hurt. Also, the couple is usually not serious about marriage and only along for immediate pleasures. This practice often ends in disaster rather than a happy and joyful relationship.
> What is the importance of waiting? It's simple, really; as we wait we put our trust and faith in God to move in our lives. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to gie you hope and a future." God watches over us. Many people might say, "You are crazy to wait for a spouse. It's absurd; the only way you can get to know someone is if you date a variety of people until you find the right one." Well I challenge these people to wait on God for Him to provide a spouse. You might ask, "How will I get married if I don't try to find my spouse?" With that man-centered mindset, you are, in reality, telling God you don't trust Him and lack faith in Him to provide for you a husband. If God provides everything else, then why can't he provide for you the greatest thing in life? Our focus should be on Christ, not on trying to find our mate. ... Seek God first and He will give you your heart's desires. ... Don't rush into dating for fear of losing "the one," but trust in God and pray. Ask other to pray with you and be sure God is leading you before telling that special someone you love them. If you truly love them, then you can wait.
> Is love a feeling, a physical attraction, an emotion, or something more? Love entails trials and responses that prove a person's trustworthiness and commitment; it is not just a gushy feeling in your stomach or the passionate desires of your heart. Love can't be confirmed at first meeting. The basis of a good relationship is faith, trust, and love, and as we trust in God and align our thoughts and actions to His Word, He will bless us.
> Let us hold fast to His promises and step out in faith by waiting on God. God will give us the best if we are willing to wait. Remember, God watches out for yo, and will provide for every single one of your needs.